I am aware of one family of size 3, hubby wife n kid. Both hubby and wife were working as they are highly qualified. Wife was working even after her pregnancy and now their son is around 3 years and mam opted to be a full time mom after few months of resuming job post delivery. In the meantime hubby went ahead with even more higher qualification successfully. The other day after a long gap, I met and interacted with mam and tiny-tot for a very short duration. Thereafter when I met sir and generally asked about how is mam and their son doing, as I was not able to spend more time with them during our short meeting. My question was "what is mam upto these days?" and boom the answer came immediately without wasting any time "nothing, she is doing nothing since years, just taking care of baby full time". I was not even shocked to hear this answer from an extremely learned person about his own wife, I mean he must have just said it casually or he never mean anything else, and even I am not taking it in wrong sense as I am totally aware of why girls are given the responsibility by the nature to becomes moms instead of men. Its a huge responsibility and 24X7 job.
During my pregnancy and when we both "would be parents" were attending parenting sessions, workshops etc. even that time also the trainers used to tell us never use negative words or recollect the lessons in English in school about active-passive voice and apply them now while conversing with your kid(s). Even while crafting my PhD thesis and journal papers my guide also emphasized on utilizing active-passive voice regularly to avoid negative statements in text. I am continuing giving the same advice to my PhD scholars too.
So why not this hubby apply these simple concepts and say that my wify is working full time bringing up our child in healthier environment. This would have reflected his personality and fatherhood in better manner. According to me utilizing & applying concepts learned during education and qualification is utmost important in every day life, which is generally missing I feel. Hope things will change in near future and we will see a more healthier and brighter world soon.
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