How much to appreciate and when?
It may depend on the relationship primarily, but it also depends on who you are? If you are a free soul and love to appreciate, then go ahead and just do it. According to me, there is no harm in appreciating the appreciable work. Appreciation for trivial things will be at a lower level. It is so personal that there is no thumb rule. It is every individual's personal choice. I think it is a true example of incremental learning. So start with appreciation as and when you feel like, with anyone and everyone you meet. It is a completely natural phenomenon, so let it flow.
Will people work for you if you appreciate them?
No, not necessary. This is a kali-yuga. So you never know what is going on in someone else's mind and how they take it. But you do your job unknowingly, as it is your teaching. How others react to it or work on it is their way of looking at things.
Parenting and appreciation
Mothers generally appreciate their kids a lot. Dads are usually practical and give their kids a glimpse of the real world. They use appreciation only when it is needed. I believe this combo works best while bringing up the kids. But these days, mothers are also very professional, career-oriented, lived in the real professional world and hence along with appreciation, a dose of reality is given unknowingly. It is the need of an hour and helpful for the next-gen.
Form of appreciation, written / verbal / action (smile / post its) / gifts?
Any form of appreciation is good. The person should be valued nevertheless.
You will always get back what you have given. You will also benefit in some way or the other.
Apologies for repeating my statement, but, irrespective of the form, the work should not stop. Consistency of appreciating others need to be maintained, as a change of work is considered to be rest.
Once you receive appreciation, how long its effect stays? or you need to keep on doing stuff constantly?
It varies from person to person. Sometimes the receiver does not even bother about your appreciation, as they might be expectations might differ.
The post-it experiment had been conducted for a reason. The individual should feel relaxed and happy and should also keep appreciating others.
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