Confidence

Our kids when they are around 1+ they try with tricycle, swiftly move on to bicycle with support wheels, then to ideal bicycle, with and without many gears and then to two-wheeler motorized bike. These transitions happen over the period of time, slowly and steadily, as per their age and growth phase. In my opinion, witnessing these smooth transitions, thrills, laughs and celebrations etc. are truly rewarding for the kids and the parents too.

Why?

It is not easy to collect the courage to drive, it's challenging for every individual, respectively with their own personalities.

Once parents experience these transitions showing that kids are moving forward, over the period of time they / parents should relax ideally. These forward movements are one of the ways to confirm that kids are capable to try, fail, try-again, control and succeed finally, in all respects, slowly and steadily. Then why many parents since ages are constantly in worry-mode?, related to their kids phases including education, job, marriage etc. Even after marriage there is no full-stop for many parents, they go ahead and focus on grandkid's health, admission, education, and what not. Why?

In addition to the cycle riding example, I also wish to quote that kids successfully handle many teachers, classmates, schools, bus travel and what not from kindergarten to say college. It should be enough proof or strata or sampling (in research) to prove about kid's personalities.

At least from today-on requesting all those parents who are reading these words and have the habit of keeping themselves in worry-mode always, please have complete confidence in your kid(s) and relax. I wish to give you one more proof to believe my words written here in this blog.

Please read following article and chill: https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/blogs/toi-edit-page/the-story-of-the-endearing-butter-thief/