When I worked full-time as a teacher, I belonged to that institution, and it belonged to me. We knew each other well. I had been a part of it for years. So, appearances didn’t matter much. A simple dress would do just fine.
But now, I’m no longer tied to one institute full-time. Instead, I’ve taken on the role of carrying forward and spreading the immense learning and rich experiences that place gave me. Somehow, this new path landed in my lap and I’ve embraced it.
These days, I find myself traveling across Pune, visiting different academic institutions to speak about research. Each place is new to me, and I am new to them. But when I walk in, I never feel alone. Along with me come all the people, ideas, and blessings that shaped me.
Though people see just me, I am merely a representative, there’s something greater behind me. I am the messenger, the voice, not the entire story.
That’s why I now choose to dress thoughtfully, with intention. Most often, I prefer wearing a saree. And because of that, my eyes are now naturally drawn to sarees, online, in shops, everywhere.
Just a few days ago, I bought a lovely cotton saree. While giving it for finishing work, a thought brushed past my mind: from the weaver who spun it, to the seller, to those who prepared it for wearing, anyone among them might have admired it. Maybe they felt, “What a beautiful saree, I wish I could buy one for myself, or for someone I love.” Even after I wear it, many others might appreciate it. It’s only human, it’s natural to admire something lovely.
So, I asked myself: What little gesture can I make to ensure that this appreciation remains pure, free of envy or discomfort, both for others and myself?
And here’s what came to me. It’s incredibly simple.
The moment you spot something that touches your heart, offer a silent nod of acknowledgment to the divine. Recognize that your ability to even desire it is a gift. If you’re fortunate enough to bring it home, place it in front of your sacred space and pause in humility. When you wear it, say a quiet prayer of joy. Before stepping out, whisper a few heartfelt words to the One who made it all possible.
That’s all. These small acts are enough to shift your energy, and others will sense the change too. It reflects in your presence.
And just to clarify, I only used the saree as an example. This feeling applies to everything, lets make it a habit dears.
