शुक्रवार, ९ एप्रिल, २०२१

कृपा अक्का ब्लेसिंग्ज

अगदी प्रत्येक जण ह्या धरतीवर कृपा ह्या शब्दाबद्दल आणि त्याच्या परिणामा बद्दल सजग असतोच. सगळेच जण आपापल्या दृष्टीने कृपा ह्या शब्दाचा अर्थ लावत असतात.  

कोणाला असं वाटत कि मोठं घर गाडी पैसा आहे म्हणजे नक्की कृपा आहे,  

तर काही जणांना वाटत कि घर जरी छोटं असलं तरी डोक्यावर छप्पर आहे आणि सगळ्यांच्या तब्बेती ठणठणीत आहेत म्हणजे मोठी कृपा आहे

प्रत्येकाचा दृष्टीकोन (मोजमाप) अगदी वेगळा आणि बरोबर देखील. ह्यात मी पण आलेच. माझं हि कळत कृपेचं मॅपिंग चालूच असत मनातल्या मनात.  

एवढ्यातच अचानक सरकारी आदेशानुसार आम्ही लवकर निघतो आहे ऑफिस मधून कारण वाजता संध्याकाळी सगळं बंद होत त्यामुळे. लवकर निघण्याचे समजल्यावर ताबडतोब बस मधे चर्चेला उधाण आलं. "मग आता आपल्याला लवकर बोलावणार का?" .  

त्यातच माझ्या मुलांची १२वी बोर्ड प्रॅक्टिकल सुरु झालेत आणि त्यामुळे ह्यांना सकाळी शाळेत देखील जावं लागत सोडायला मुलांना

"शाळेत देखील...." ह्याचा अर्थ: माझा बस स्टॉप साधारणतः किलोमीटर दूर असल्यामुळे आणि माझे पाय कुरबुरत असल्यामुळे ह्यांना मला सोडायला आणि घ्यायला यावंच लागत.  

जर माझं हि ऑफिस लवकर झालं असत तर थोडीशी धावपळ आणि पंचाईत झाली असती.  

पण तसं का$$$ही झालं नाही. माझ्या दृष्टीने हि कृपाच आहे "त्याची" नक्कीच. प्रत्येक वेळी, क्षणोक्षणी / पदोपदी सांभाळलं आहे आज पर्यंत इतकी वर्ष "त्याने". मनापासून धन्यवाद.

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बुधवार, ७ एप्रिल, २०२१

सुट्टी आणि परमानंद

मला तर कुठलीही आणि कितीही दिवसांची सुट्टी मिळाली कि परमानंद होतोच, पण माझ्या शिवाय अजून कोणाला तरी होतो, त्याच्या बद्दलच आज मी लिहायचं ठरवलं आहे. ओळख पाहू कोण ते? नाही नाही, सगळे अंदाज सपशेल चुकले हो तुमचे. 


आज मी माझ्या बरोबरीने रोज ऑफिस मधे येणाऱ्या एका सखी बद्दल बोलते आहे. येस, माझ्या डब्याची पिशवी. बिचारी, तिला देखील थोड्या फार प्रमाणात चटके बसतातच ना, कारण सकाळच्या घाईत बरेचदा थोडंस गरम असतांनाच डबे भरले जातात आणि मग तिची पण सैर असते आधी दोनचाकीवर बस स्टॉप पर्यंत, मग बस ने ऑफिस पर्यंत, मग माझ्या बसायच्या जागी आणि अशीच वरात परत पण. 


दुसरा आणि चौथा शनिवार रविवार बिच्चारील आराम होतो थोडासा पण अगदी माझ्या सारखी आहे ती, अधे मधे सहज बदल म्हणून सुट्टी मिळाली रे मिळाली कि फारच खुश होते. आज मी "वर्क फ्रॉम होम (Work From Home)" करत आहे त्यामुळे तिची संपूर्ण सुट्टीच ना. सकाळपासून वाकुल्या दाखवून खुणावते आहे असा मला भास होतो आहे, त्यामुळेच हा छोटेखानी पंक्ती प्रपंच. डॅम्बीस कुठली.

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Having command over any language...

Due to my age-old habit of conversing with people from all age groups, I keep coming across many interesting subjects to think, write and learn about. One such incidence happened recently and it was literally a shocking encounter for me, and hence thought of penning down about it.

I was conversing with one of the Gen-Z teens and the basic point of discussion was “only consider good points from every personality…”. While narrating an example, I emphasized on one awesome achievement of an individual as having command over English language, in addition to many other “good” personality points to notice in him. 

Immediately that Gen-Z teen reacted, “so what if he is good at English? Why it’s a good point? How it will be help him or his family? Why should I consider it as good point, big deal, he went to English medium school, so he will have command over it, nothing great… blah blah blah”.

I was immediately taken a back. According to my thinking,

  1. Having command over any language for that matter is massive blessings, its not everybody’s cup of tea.
  2. Command over language is reflected in the personality of an individual as it gives a unique different confidence altogether.
  3. Also its extremely useful at work too, at every occasion, say presentations, documentation, communicating confidently with clients etc. to name a few.
  4. It similarly opens many doors for additional employment if required, translation, blogging, converters and what not.
  5. Almost every organization requires now a day’s individuals to write papers, articles, blogs and what not. Hence command over language will again be useful.
  6. It’s a great stress buster for self and others as an individual having command can twist and turn the words, give unique meanings to same common words and what not.
  7. Person is relaxed as he / she can concentrate on professional stuff instead of worrying at the language front.
  8. People like to be around such personality who are good at twists and turns of words / phrases etc. during any gatherings = popularity.
  9. Post retirement or during young age too he / she may take up assignments related to language as a great change.
  10. Linguists are artists, wonderful different personalities indeed.
  11. For such people solving and creating various forms of puzzles is an enjoyable activity, both in soft (online games) and hard form (newspapers / magazines etc).
  12. Its an additional qualification in many organizations to climb the ladder effectually and quickly.
  13. Command over language = extremely good memory power, and hence such people use words uniquely and frequently and in turn it helps building up on memory power better.

And the list goes on and on and on….

When I can list down so many benefits of having great command over a language why this new Gen-Z is not able to? 

And it’s the most beautiful point to notice from any personality around you 

Everyone should try to cautiously work on their vocab and increasing strength of their language(s), no harm and lots of paybacks for sure, for lifelong.

सुख म्हणजे नक्की काय असतं....

काल माझा नेहेमी प्रमाणे पहाटे दिवस सुरु झाला आणि थोडासा योग, स्वयंपाक घरात काम ई. झाल्यावर ऑफीच मिटिंग, लेक्टर्स वगैरे जे सुरु झाले ते दिवसभर सुरूच होते. संध्याकाळी पुन्हा चहा, झाडांना पाणी उन्हाळा असल्यामुळे, गेट धुणे अधूनमधून धूळ बसते त्यामुळे, त्यावेळी शेजाऱ्यांशी बोलणं ई, मग शुभंकरोती, स्वयंपाक, जेवणं आणि शतपाऊली हे सगळं करता आलं. दिवस अगदी भन्नाट वर्तमानपत्र चाळून सुरु झाला, रात्री सविस्तर वाचण्यात आला. शतपाऊली लेका बरोबर करता आली. 

हे सगळं साग्रसंगीत करता आलं ह्याच महत्वाचं कारण म्हणजे 

माझं काल "वर्क फ्रॉम होम (Work From Home)" होत. मला शारीरिक धावपळ नव्हती घडाळ्याच्या काट्यावर चालणारी. त्यामुळे ताबडतोब माझ्या पायांनी मला कळवलं च  कित्ती अप्रतिम वाटतंय त्यांना ते.  

मी घरी असल्यामुळे आणि पायांना आराम मिळाल्यामुळे लेक फायनल प्रॅक्टिकल परिक्षा देऊन आल्या आल्या तिला गरम गरम खायला करून देता आलं. 

छोटीशी गोष्ट आहे पण मला हा बदल फारच भावला आणि माझ्या दृष्टीने सुखाची नवीन छोटीशी परिभाषा कळली नव्याने म्हणून हा पंक्तिप्रपंच. 

"पाय सलामत तो काम पचास". 

सुख म्हणजे नक्की काय असतं....

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शनिवार, ३ एप्रिल, २०२१

Best use of Can / bottle..

From my Vespa rides days, I have observed that at Petrol Pumps people get cans or simple plastic water bottles for filling up the petrol. Might be for the broken vehicle somewhere on the road due to no petrol at all. This is continued still even today.


Recently I had been to couple of "Gas Stations" for filling up CNG in the cab and while observing the entire process carefully I roamed around in my memory lane starting from dad's Vespa days, and started thinking... now with this special nozzle requirement for filling Gas what those can-walas will do now, how they carry gas in a can or a bottle? I dont think its feasible technically but never know how and what kind of Jugad some people may follow / apply.



Six monthly rituals...

Ohhh, me and my beloved gang, we followed it religiously for so many years, and hence I am able to write about it today, after many years now. Big thanks to my gang for creating those “out of this world’s” memories, tiny but awesome, indeed.

Being a teacher at the college where semester pattern is followed, I used to buy few new dresses during the semester break as a preparation for the new semester, just to give myself and my students a fresh beginning. To select these dresses for me, I used to go all the way to Tulsibagh, as there were many shops with wide range of dress materials available and “cherry on cake” was in the same building on top floors were range of tailors who used to stitch dresses in 1-2 hours max. Wow. My gang members were me and my kidooos. It was their duty to pick few dress materials each for me and from that I used to select finally. When they are on their job, I used to enjoy window shopping. Just in case my son observed that I am stuck at a specific dress material for long time and I may buy that, he used to come and whisper in my ears cutely that “mom don’t buy this, one of my teacher is having the same dress and it looks ugly later, please”. OMG. I used to love it tremendously.

So after giving dresses for stitching our gang used to head towards our first stop Chitales, then shopping at Tulshibagh, Kavre Ice crème, back to dresses, and then home. Wow, loved it.

My kids used to feel so privileged that mom loves to wear dresses selected by them. And I always enjoyed buying from their choice as my job was made very easy due to their presence and selection, I used to feel very high as both of them used to think about me, which color will suit me, which is the new style in the market, which once I don’t have etc.. Superb time spent indeed.


“White Wednesdays (WW)”

In this tiny write-up I am sharing only my views / my way of looking at things, with due respect to all the rituals at place, set / fixed by our ancestors. Ancestors must be having their thought process behind it, and I am absolutely not denying that. But what is visible to my eyes and what I am thinking about it is poured here from the bottom of my heart.

So WW is one such concept followed or suggested for young aspiring girls in India and in Maharashtra as I am not aware of other states. Few Wednesdays in a row need to be observed by a young girl, it may start really early in their life sometimes, and the girl needs to wear only whites on those Wednesdays, eat only white food throughout the day etc. such 11 / 21 WW to follow, so that the girl will get a very good husband. And this is only one ritual, there are many such, to be followed only by girls, please note this my dears.

If that was not enough, the streak continues after marriage as well(for the girls). Let me explain. From past few days I am observing an old maid walking barefoot, where I wait for my bus at the bus-stop, but by then she had already crossed the road. But today I saw her a bit early, and spoke to her and requested her to explain why she is walking barefoot and here was her answer “My husband passed away a few days / a month ago and people in my village asked me to walk barefoot for one year for betterment of kids and blah blah blah…”. She continued even after me requesting her not to do this, “Its really ok now didi at 8.20am or so, but I work till 2-3pm and at that time walking barefoot in hot summer is painful, but for my husband and family I need to do this”. I tried my best to explain to her but she wasn't ready to listen so I literally forced her to start using footwear immediately and told her if someone asks give this reason “the society where I am working do not allow me to enter their house as my barefoot must be carrying Corona bugs”. She agreed, finally.

Before marriage, after getting (good) husband and after he leaves this world too it’s the girl who is following rituals even today and my dears this is just one example. There could be many. Even while talking to her and now while writing this my hands are shivering and I am in tears, just by simulating her pain in front of my eyes. OMG. Hope the grandma listens to my requests and starts wearing footwear immediately.  

2459: Freshly Ground Nostalgia

The last time I visited a flour mill, I think I was in 5th standard or somewhere around that age. I had gone along with my father, mostly fo...